Saturday, October 8, 2016

Trump's "Locker Room" Talks...

Yesterday at work a few people in the newsroom (all guys) made comments like, "Trump didn't know he was being recorded" and "we've all said things we regret." Someone even asked a black guy who sits next to me, "Haven't you even said things you regret?" as if to make sure even he understood that "everyone does these things, right?".

Well, lets step back from it and assess what Trump did and why he did it.

There's no question I have said things in my life which out of context would be deemed sexist, racist, homophobic, demeaning, or just insulting to any number of people or groups. I can admit that without hesitation. However, when I have said these things I have done so to an audience. Presumably one that understands me; knows me; that I trust. In every instance I have ever uttered something offensive to some person or group, I did not have to worry about who heard me because those within earshot know who I am as a human being. They know the essence of me; the core; what makes me tick. No different from when a comedian says things off-color; when most of us say things which might seem over the line, there's an audience in mind. Whether it's of one, or a group. Most of us know how what we say will be received, and by whom.

This is where Trump fails miserably.

You have to ask yourself why would he say these things to Billy Bush, who is not only a member of the media but whose uncle was the sitting President of the United States? Someone who Trump hardly knew.

The answer is clear: Trump always needs people to think he's more than he is. Only he truly knows the depths of his vacancies (although, it's becoming more clear), so he spends an inordinate ammount of time trying to convince others he is something he is not. Saying these things to someone who is a stranger? To what end? Right, because you want them to think of you differently than they probably do. Differently from what they have probably heard. Trump's worry is in perpetuity, always assuming others have heard the truth about who he is, from those who know him.

Insecurity has a certain scent.

Then consider the fact he not only said these things to Bush, but that he was wearing a microphone, or was at least within ear shot of microphones. No, he wasn't in a locker room. Had he been there we would never know this story. He was on a bus owned by a media company with the words "ACCESS HOLLYWOOD" emblazoned across the side!

In other words, in addition to everything else, he's a fucking moron. And not like, "Oh, he's a moron..." No! AN ACTUAL FUCKING DUMB MORON.

In a locker room? Yeah, that goes on all day. We get that. On a golf course with Bill Clinton? Sure, but no one heard that because Clinton isn't a fucking moron. There's no audio/video of Clinton having affairs with women, or him speaking about them because he a) isn't dumb and b) doesn't need to sell people on who he is. We know. Like him or not, people are attracted to Clinton. Few are attracted to Trump.

This isn't like Romney's "47 percent quote." Romney had a right to assume he was speaking privately, wrongly, or not. That's understandable.

ON THE ACCESS HOLLYWOOD BUS TO A MEDIA MEMBER? Yeah, fucking dumb moron.

And the stories never end with Trump. Whether his own wife accused him of rape, or this other story of assault, the comments about Miss America, or this latest gaffe. It never ends. And we're not even parsing every interview from the Howard Stern or Larry King programs.

The guy is a sexual predator, period. The end.

He may also build things, but he's a sexual predator as well.

Say what you want about Clinton because he seems to be today's standard for those trying to defend, but Monica had a CONSENSUAL encounter with him.

Trump bullies women like he does everyone else in his life, be it a female, a contractor, or a reporter. It's always the same. Show me the person who truly knows Trump and isn't collecting a check from him, who actually likes him.

When men make "locker room" comments in front of others, they do so in jest. They don't want you to think they actually believe in what they're saying, or would act out on their comments. It's all fun, whether it's tasteless, or not. Yes, many people do THAT.

Yet most men who would actually act out on their lewd comments, they don't verbalize them to others, let alone strangers. That's how clueless and psychotic this guy is. He not only acts this way, but he is telling you details of his escapades. So not only is it not in jest, it's both real and something he would brag about!

How deranged is that?

That's not locker room talk.

That's prison talk.

SIDENOTE

Is it not strange to Trump voters that the people who dislike him most are the ones living in the places he claims to be successful? Better known as: the people who know him.

As for Billy Bush, that was his locker room. He had every reason to believe that his comments would be safe. And at the same time, his JOB is to get to the heart of the guest. If acting out, in what he deemed a private environment, enabled him to make Trump feel comfortable, I understand that.

Not saying it's right, but I GET THAT.

I do not think he should be fired.

Saturday, September 24, 2016

STRAIGHT GAMBLING!

Well, Week 1 NFL I went 9-5-1 Against the Spread (ATS). Was on air Sunday, after the Week 2 games so didn't make picks.

Not sure what's considered good, but we'll see how the season goes.

Week 3:

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ARI -3.5 (BUF)

OAK -1 (TEN)

CLE +9.5 (MIA)

JAX +1 (BAL)

DET +7 (GB)

CIN -3.5 (DEN)

CAR -6.5 (MIN)

NYG -3.5 (WAS)

TB -5 (TB)

KC -3 (NYJ)

SD +2.5 (IND)

PIT -3.5 (PHI)

DAL -7 (CHI)

ATL +2.5 (NO)

SF +10 (SEA)

Monday, September 12, 2016

The Weekend that Was

For those of you who don't want your athletes getting involved in social issues, I'm about to end that debate.

A.I.

We start with Allen Iverson and his Hall of Fame induction speech. If you didn't see it, you should. Even if you don't care about the guy, watch it. But not before you finish reading this.

It literally brought me to tears.

For those not in the know, "A.I." was both a transcendent and polarizing figure in the NBA. Misunderstood by many, especially the media and many older folks who couldn't deal with his "style", Iverson became a lightning rod for criticism with regard to nearly everything he did. In many ways he shined a light on a lot of issues mainstream America wanted ignored. Whether it was his tattoos, hairdo, relationships with coaches, or style of dress, we were often led to believe Iverson was doing something wrong.

Truth be told, Iverson was doing everything right: he was being himself.

Except "himself" wasn't tolerable for a lot of dated white people. Whether many people were able to understand him wasn't his fault, but their own. Slowly, but surely, more and more people are starting to understand him now, which gets to the most important aspect of Iverson, and a legacy not yet discussed fully.

When you consider all that is transpiring today when it comes to race relations, "Black Lives Matter", Colin Kaepernick, and the rest, Iverson was way out in front on all of it, albeit indirectly, and without specific intention.

Just to give you an idea of things, growing up in Hampton, Virginia, Iverson once lived in an a home where raw sewage leaked for a month. His parents had him when they were 15 years old, and like a number of kids in his neighborhood, his father wasn't much involved in his life. The two most important male influences who were in his life both disappeared before high school ended. One killed, the other imprisoned. Not unusual in his community.

Like many youths in urban areas, sports became the escape for Iverson. He was not only a phenomenal basketball player, but was considered by many to be the best football player in the South, arguably the entire country. Every single big time college wanted Iverson to wear their uniform(s). Except all of them would rescind their offers soon after learning of his involvement in a brawl at a bowling alley, which involved black teenagers fighting white ones.

Despite having no criminal record, and there being no real proof of outstanding violence on his part, Iverson was sentenced to 5 years in prison by a white judge who attended the Virginia Military Institute and later University of Virginia law school. Needless to say, the judge wasn't considered to be sympathetic toward Iverson. And worth noting, none of the whites involved were charged.

In December of 1993, Virginia Governor Douglas Wilder pardoned Iverson. Even though he had a very light complexion (which probably helped get him elected), Wilder was the state's first and only black Governor. Which begs the question: what would Iverson's life have been like had George Allen been in office?

A month after the pardon, Gov. Allen would follow Wilder. Much later on in Gov. Allen's career he would go on to use the word "macaca" in describing an employee of his political rival. Macaca means "monkey" in Portuguese.

Do you think Iverson would have been pardoned by Governor Allen? Do you think Iverson gets an opportunity to attend Georgetown 5 years after prison? What do you think happens to Iverson if Governor Allen had been in office; not Governor Wilder?

When you think about these things, maybe then you'll recognize a bit more what the "black experience" is like for many people living in America. Maybe then you'll start to understand a little bit more what "Black Lives Matter" is all about. Because without certain, very specific circumstances, there's a very good chance you never find out who Allen Iverson is. Then most of America never witnesses Iverson. And then many people are never made to feel a little uncomfortable about what he represents, looks like, or the way he acts.

Allen Iverson is a survivor of his experience, and by the skin of his teeth. Iverson's mere existence pushed many staid people out of their comfort zones.

And although Iverson doesn't kneel during the Star Spangled Banner, or wear a "BLM" t-shirt during a sporting event, he has always been one of the most important representations of the modern American black male struggle.

Allen Iverson is Black Lives Matter.

Now go listen to his speech.

BETTING

For the first time in my life I decided to "pick games" against the spread, since I've noticed a lot of sports personalities and gambling "experts" take pride in doing this.

Well, so far it has been somewhat successful. I don't know how accurate some of these other "experts" are, but as it stands, going into tonight, I went 9-3-1 against the spread. I picked the Jets, Chargers and Lions to outright win their games, and was oh so close in all 3. Either way, they call covered.

Three of the 4 games I got wrong are the ones I had a vested interest in: Eagles & Raiders, and a push on the Giants. Which just goes to show when I let emotion enter my judgement, I don't do very well. It's why I don't gamble. That said, I might be good at picking games, and I'll continue to do so throughout the season on twitter and on-air.

You can listen to my takes from Friday's show here.

Again, I don't know if 11-3-1 is good, which I plan on being after tonight, since I don't gamble or follow "experts." But feel free to let me know what good is when it comes to picking games against the spread.

UFC is KIND OF LAME

I preface this by saying I really do LOVE high level Mixed Martial Arts (MMA) as much as anyone. But I've always felt the WWE component of it was lame. I still do. Whether it was Brock Lesnar, who was clearly a talent and a success story, or the latest effort by CM Punk, who got his ass handed to him by a guy from New Brunswick, it always just seemed lame to me. Lame in the way that Tim Tebow getting a baseball contract is lame.

When MMA is at it's best it really is amazing. But when it's at it's worst, which these days seems to be most it, you start to understand why it will never truly capture an audience the way boxing once did.

The circus act component has got to go.

CARSON WENTZ IS...

...obviously the greatest football player of all time. And without question he's the best quarterback to wear #11 in Philadelphia since this guy did it.

Jokes aside, Wentz did a really nice job yesterday in light of how little he has played in the NFL, which includes little pre-season play. If you're an Eagles fan, today is a day to be excited.

It's worth mentioning that it was the Browns, but that being said, prior to yesterday Wentz was playing against opponents of North Dakota State. Yesterday he saw Joe Haden and Danny Shelton. Big difference!

Expect a regression to the mean very quickly for Wentz as defensive coordinators start to figure out his flaws. In the short term, they may make him struggle, but in the long run he will figure them out. Not to say he's winning Superbowls any time soon because even studs like Matt Stafford aren't close, but at the very least it seems the quarterback problem in Philadelphia is solved for the moment.

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And speaking of "solving" the quarterback problem, the Cowboys haven't. As I've been saying on the air for a few weeks: Dak Prescott is at best an average quarterback in the NFL. Yesterday his flaws were exposed.

Playing behind the best offensive line in football, and getting at least an extra second to throw the ball, Prescott was merely fair. If you watched the game it was apparent early that Prescott can throw the ball accurately from the pocket, or on the run, within 20 yards. But when the field shrinks near the red-zone, or he has to go up top to make a play, he doesn't do it very well. No different from when he was lofting balls to De'Runnya Wilson.

It's why he was a 4th round draft pick.

Don't expect too much from Prescott, and don't be surprised when Mark Sanchez is taking snaps.

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Monday, August 22, 2016